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New Relationship Strong Foundation Tips (How to Create a Strong Foundation for Your Relationship)

Building a strong foundation for your relationship from the beginning is a smart idea. You are wise to be seeking this advice at this stage, as making the right moves now can mean years of happiness in the future. Here are some tips to make it happen! Don't fake it Many people feel that in order to make someone like them, they have to change themselves somehow, or become an actor, putting forward a false front to impress their new partner. In reality, though, you need to be who you are. If you want a partner who likes you for who you are, then you need to be who you are from the beginning. This reduces stress and tension later on, because the real you will start to show through no matter what your efforts at faking it. And, when that happens, your partner will realize that you aren't who they thought you were. If they then don't like the real you, you will go through the stress of a breakup, and have to start all over again with someone else. Many people then repeat the sam

How To Survive An Affair And Control Your Thoughts

Knowing how to survive an affair and control your thoughts in the process is not easy to do, but it can be done with a little help. This is an emotional time in your life and you can't stop thinking about your husband or wife having relations with someone else. You have given them the best years of your life and this is what you get in return. Thinking the two of you were happy after all those years, this hits you like a ton of bricks. Your thoughts are all messed up to the point where you don't know what to think. Images of your spouse with someone else is the only thing clouding your head and you just can't stop thinking about it no matter what you do. Does these thoughts stay on your mind? 1. I don't believe my marriage will hold up to this pressure. 2. It makes me sick just looking at my spouse and thought of them touching me makes my skin crawl. 3. What did I do to deserve this? Am I unattractive to my spouse? Was the sex not good enough? 4. Was I neglecting my s